No ginger is an island

Humorous, adventurous, listening, ginger, geek, independent, truthful.

Talk everyday. Laugh everyday. Don’t be afraid to be inappropriate. Be odd and obscure. It’s the weirdest things that can push us out of our shells and teach us the most about life on this mortal coil. But next time, do it funnier. With videos of cats and unicorns and other silly shit.

Step outside of your comfort zone. Question everything. Trying new things helps you grow. The more you challenge yourself the better of a person you will become. Form your goals and be what you want to be. Never stop reinventing yourself.

Nobody wants to be with someone who only talks about themselves. Something bothering you? Tell me what’s wrong. But it’s all give and take, so don’t forget to return the favor.

Be passionate. Stand up for your beliefs and challenge others to question theirs. Do not fall for someone that doesn’t push back and make you question yourself – for that is the best way to progress and grow together. And they make the best lovers.

Have a conversation about the things that matter to you. Don’t be judgmental or try to make others feel bad for a difference of opinion. You are not always right. Challenge yourself to think different. Your opinion without any experience to back it up is not worth the tiny bits of data it takes to display text on a tablet device in comparison to the age of wisdom that comes from seeing the world objectively through different vantage points. You never stop learning. All of life is a lesson. Inquire within upon everything. Seek as much education as you can get. And remember – you get what you put in.

Be you. Define yourself. Love yourself away from being anything other than what you truly want to be. Don’t fit in. Stand out. Use your own voice. Speak your words. Dance how you want to dance. And respect others for their own individuality.

Be intentional. Say what you mean. Truth is relative, but best friends always tell it like it is and are there for you when you need them most – even when you don’t realize you do. Forgive them their pettinesses, for their sanctuary of trust will be worth more than a lifetime of accomplishments spent alone. No ginger is an island.